Some divorces feel like psychological warfare. If your spouse is manipulative, controlling, or obsessed with appearances, you may be dealing with narcissistic behavior. These cases are harder than most—not because the law changes, but because your ex refuses to play fair.
At Brandi Wolfe Law, we help clients protect themselves legally and emotionally during high-conflict divorces with narcissists. We’ve seen the gaslighting, the lies, the endless drama—and we know how to shut it down in court.
What Narcissistic Behavior Looks Like in Divorce
Narcissists aren’t just difficult. They push boundaries, twist facts, and try to wear you down until you give up. In divorce, that often looks like:
- Refusing to provide financial information
- Weaponizing the children to gain control
- Filing motions just to increase stress or cost
- Creating false abuse allegations
- Ignoring court orders
- Making everything a public performance
The more you try to reason with them, the more they twist your words. That’s why having a strong legal voice matters.
How We Protect You in These Cases
When you’re up against someone who only cares about winning, you need a lawyer who focuses on strategy—not just paperwork.
We help you:
- Document communication to show patterns of abuse
- Get temporary orders that create immediate structure
- Push for parenting plans that reduce direct contact
- Expose inconsistencies and credibility issues in court
- Avoid emotional traps that derail progress
If custody is a major issue, learn more about our approach to Child Custody. We don’t just defend your rights—we protect your peace of mind.
You Are Not Overreacting
Clients often feel isolated or second-guess themselves after months or years of gaslighting. You’re not imagining things. And you don’t have to prove that your ex has a diagnosis to get the court to see what’s happening.
What matters is how their behavior affects the legal process, the children, and your ability to move forward.
Don’t Let the Drama Control the Outcome
We’ve helped people just like you get through divorces with narcissists and walk away stronger. You don’t have to engage every lie, match every insult, or sacrifice your sanity to protect your future.
Call (210) 571-0400 or set up a free strategy consult today. We’ll help you draw a line, set a plan, and stay in control.