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What Does “Independent Rights Subject to Meaningful Conference” Mean in a Texas Custody Order?

In plain English, it says you can make that decision on your own, but before you do, you have to tell the other parent what you’re deciding and why. You don’t need their agreement. You … Read more

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My Ex Got the House in Our Texas Divorce, but My Name Is Still on the Mortgage. What Now?

A Texas divorce decree can award the house to your ex and order your ex to pay the mortgage. It can’t take your name off the loan. The mortgage company wasn’t a party to your … Read more

Child's backpack by a doorway beneath a shared parenting calendar, illustrating the primary residence designation in a Texas custody order

What Does “Primary Parent” Mean in Texas? The Right to Designate Primary Residence After Gopalan v. Marsh

Legally, nothing. Texas law doesn’t have a “primary parent.” What a Texas custody order can give one parent is the exclusive right to designate the child’s primary residence, and in May 2026 the Texas Supreme … Read more

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Does My Teenager Have to Go to Visitation in Texas? How a Maturity Clause Works

A Texas teenager has to go to court-ordered visitation unless the order itself says otherwise. A teenager can share an opinion in a custody case, but that opinion doesn’t override the court order. There is … Read more

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My Parents Gave Us the Down Payment. Is It Separate Property in a Texas Divorce?

A gift from your parents can be separate property in a Texas divorce. Proving that is often the harder part. Under Texas law, property a spouse receives by gift during the marriage is that spouse’s … Read more

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Military Family Care Plans in Texas: What Deploying Parents Need to Know

Who Cares for Your Kids If You Deploy, and What the Plan Has to Say A Family Care Plan is a Department of Defense requirement that tells your command exactly who takes care of your … Read more

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The 10/10 Rule Myth: What It Actually Decides in a Texas Military Divorce

No, Ten Years of Marriage Does Not Decide Whether You Get Military Retirement The 10/10 rule is one of the most misunderstood pieces of military divorce law, and the misunderstanding always runs the same direction. … Read more

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The Survivor Benefit Plan Deadline After a Military Divorce in Texas

One Year to File a Deemed Election, and Missing It Can Be Extremely Hard to Fix If your divorce order requires your former spouse to provide Survivor Benefit Plan coverage, you generally have one year … Read more

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Do You Keep TRICARE and Base Access After a Military Divorce in Texas?

The 20/20/20 and 20/20/15 Rules That Decide What a Former Military Spouse Keeps Whether you keep TRICARE, commissary access, and your base ID after a military divorce comes down to three numbers: how long you … Read more

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Can Your Child Fly Alone for Custody Visits? Unaccompanied Minor Travel Rules for Texas Parents

What Your Texas Custody Order Should Say Before the First Unaccompanied Flight American, Delta, and Southwest all allow some children to travel alone starting at age 5, subject to each airline’s unaccompanied minor rules. That … Read more