Military divorces aren’t handled the same way as civilian cases. There are extra layers of rules, protections, and complications—especially when children, benefits, or deployments are involved. If you or your spouse is active duty, retired, or a reservist, you need a lawyer who understands both Texas family law and military procedure.
At Brandi Wolfe Law, we’ve helped servicemembers and spouses across San Antonio navigate the divorce process with clarity and strength. That includes families connected to Joint Base San Antonio, Lackland Air Force Base, Fort Sam Houston, and Randolph Air Force Base.
What Makes a Military Divorce Different?
Military divorces involve both state and federal law, and the details matter. Here are just a few of the complications we’re equipped to handle:
- Delays due to deployment or active duty
- Jurisdictional issues (where the divorce can be filed)
- Division of military retirement benefits and pensions
- Child custody across state or international lines
- Health benefits and base privileges
- Relocation and PCS-related parenting complications
If you’re unsure where to even begin, you’re not alone. Many military spouses don’t realize how much is at stake until it’s too late to negotiate effectively.
Know Your Rights Around Military Pensions
One of the most misunderstood parts of a military divorce is how retirement benefits get divided. Whether you’re the service member or the spouse, it’s critical to understand:
- The difference between disposable vs gross retired pay
- How the 10/10 rule works (10 years of marriage + 10 years of service)
- What happens with VA disability pay and SBP elections
- How to protect or secure survivor benefits
Brandi has helped clients navigate these issues with confidence—because one wrong line in your decree can affect your financial future for decades.
Need help sorting out retirement assets? Read more about our approach to Property Division.
Co-Parenting When You’re Stationed Apart
Custody can get complicated fast when one parent is stationed elsewhere or deployed. We help you create parenting plans that account for:
- Temporary absences
- Long-distance visitation
- Holiday and leave scheduling
- Protections against parental relocation without permission
Whether you’re the service member or the civilian parent, our goal is to preserve your relationship with your children while keeping their routines stable.
If you’re in a custody battle tied to a military divorce, see how we handle Child Custody in high-conflict cases.
You Deserve a Lawyer Who Knows the System
We don’t just understand military divorce—we’ve seen the emotional toll it takes on both sides. At Brandi Wolfe Law, we fight to make sure no one is overlooked, outmaneuvered, or forced into an agreement that doesn’t reflect the full picture.
You’ve served or supported someone who did. Let us serve you in return—with legal protection that honors what you’ve been through.
Start With a Free Consultation
Whether you’re preparing to file or just received unexpected divorce papers, the sooner you get guidance, the more control you’ll have over the outcome. Brandi Wolfe offers free strategy sessions with no pressure and no fluff.
Call (210) 571-0400 or book a free military divorce consult now. You’ll get straight answers and a plan tailored to your situation.
Military divorce is different. You need a lawyer who treats it that way.