Your Legal Safety Net: How Texas Protects Victims of Domestic Violence
If you’re living in fear because of domestic abuse, the law is on your side, and so is San Antonio. Protective orders exist to help you regain control, stay safe, and start healing. Here’s what you need to know.
“When you’re ready, I’m here to help you take back your peace of mind. I’ll be with you every step of the way, at your pace.” – Brandi Wolfe, San Antonio Domestic Violence Attorney
Understanding Protective Orders in Texas
You might not be sure what your legal options are, and that’s okay. Let’s start by clearing up what a protective order actually is and how it can help you feel safer starting today.
A protective order is a legal document that tells someone to stay away from you. It’s not just a piece of paper – it’s backed by court enforcement, and violations carry serious consequences.
There are a few types to know:
- Emergency Protective Order (EPO): Issued shortly after an arrest and takes effect quickly.
- Temporary Ex Parte Protective Order: Granted without notifying the abuser when there’s immediate danger.
- Final Protective Order: Comes after a court hearing and typically lasts up to two years – sometimes longer.
All of this falls under Texas Family Code §§ 81-85, the section of the law designed to protect victims from repeat harm.
“Many of my clients feel overwhelmed just thinking about court. I want you to know I’ll guide you through every step so you never have to face it alone.” – Brandi Wolfe
Who Can Get a Protective Order in San Antonio?
Many people second-guess whether their situation “counts” as abuse. If someone has scared or harmed you, you absolutely deserve protection. You don’t need to wait until things get worse to take action.
If you’ve been physically harmed, threatened, or put in fear by someone close to you, you likely qualify. This includes violence or threats from:
- A spouse or ex
- A dating partner
- A relative
- A roommate
- The parent of your child
Texas law (specifically, § 71.004) defines “family violence” broadly to make sure people in different situations can get help. It also covers stalking, sexual assault, and trafficking.
“No matter what your situation looks like, whether you’ve left or are still living with them, your experience is valid and help is available.” – Brandi Wolfe
How to Get a Protective Order in Bexar County
I know. The idea of filing court paperwork can feel intimidating, especially when you’re already going through so much. But you don’t have to handle it on your own. Let me walk you through what happens and how I help clients step-by-step through this process.
Getting started might seem overwhelming, but the process in San Antonio is designed to support you:
- Reach out: Contact the Bexar County Family Justice Center. They’ll help you figure out what kind of protective order makes sense for your case.
- Prepare your paperwork: You’ll fill out some forms and write a short affidavit explaining what happened.
- Meet with an advocate: This person is on your side and will help get your paperwork to the right legal team.
- Submit to the court: A prosecutor reviews the documents, and they’re filed with the court.
- Attend the hearing: You’ll explain your situation to a judge, and if approved, your protective order becomes active immediately.
“We’ll take this one step at a time. I’ll help you with the forms, walk into court with you, and make sure your voice is heard.” – Brandi Wolfe
What a Protective Order Can Actually Do for You
A lot of people I talk to just want to know, “Will this really protect me?” The answer is yes. These orders are backed by law and give you clear, enforceable boundaries.
Protective orders come with real consequences for abusers. If someone is threatening or harming you, the court can:
- Order them not to contact you – in person, online, or through others
- Force them to move out of a shared home
- Restrict them from owning a gun
- Award temporary custody of children
- Require counseling or treatment
Violating any part of the order is a criminal offense. San Antonio law enforcement is trained to respond quickly and seriously to these reports.
Support Systems You Can Rely On in San Antonio
Sometimes the hardest part is just making the first call. But you’re not alone. There are people and services right here in San Antonio who are ready to listen, help, and protect you without judgment.
San Antonio offers multiple resources to support victims of domestic violence:
- Bexar County Family Justice Center
Provides legal assistance, caseworkers, and access to partner organizations. [bcfjc.org]. - Family Violence Prevention Services
Offers emergency shelter, counseling, and long-term housing - Texas RioGrande Legal Aid (TRLA)
Offers free legal help for protective orders and custody matters - Women’s Empowerment Legal Center
Focused legal support for survivors of abuse - Hotlines
- Local Crisis Line: 210-733-8810
- National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-7233
“Whether or not you choose to work with me, I want you to know these resources are available and they can help you feel safe again.” – Brandi Wolfe
Frequently Asked Questions
You’ve probably got a lot of questions. That’s completely normal. This process can feel confusing or scary at first. Here are answers to some of the most common concerns my clients have when we first talk.
How long does a protective order last in Texas?
Most protective orders last up to two years, but serious cases can extend longer.
Can I get a protective order without the abuser knowing?
Yes. A Temporary Ex Parte Order can be issued without notifying the abuser if there’s clear and present danger.
Do I have to pay to file for a protective order?
No. It’s completely free in Bexar County.
What if the person breaks the order?
Call 911. Violating a protective order is a criminal act. Police can and will arrest violators.
Can I change or extend the order later?
Yes. Go back to the court where the order was issued and request a modification or extension.
You’re Not Alone – Brandi Wolfe Can Help You Take the First Step
If you’re in an abusive situation, you don’t have to figure it all out on your own. Legal protection is just one part of the picture. Having the right person by your side can make all the difference.
Brandi Wolfe has worked with countless women in San Antonio facing domestic violence. She understands the fear, confusion, and urgency you may be feeling, and she’s here to support you with clarity, care, and action.
Whether you’re ready to file for a protective order or just need to talk through your options, Brandi will listen, guide, and stand with you every step of the way.
Reach out today. Your safety matters, and help is just a phone call away.
Call Brandi Wolfe now to schedule a confidential consultation.